lunes, 3 de septiembre de 2007

Las parejas que hacen acuerdos...pueden fracasar.



El amor de un matrimonio, no es un negocio
. Alguna vez oí a una pareja de novios que antes de su boda decían: "Nosotros ya nos pusimos de acuerdo... él, -decía la novia-, va a lavar los trastes, y yo tenderé la cama -decía ella-. Él cocinará los sábados y domingos, y yo entre semana". Y así, mencionaron una larga lista de acuerdos.

¡Vaya! eso me pareció más bien un contrato de negocios donce cada una de las partes se obliga a cumplir con determinadas tareas. EL AMOR NO SE NEGOCIA.

Cuando una persona ama de verdad entrega todo incondicionalmente. Me pregunto, ¿qué pasaría si alguno de los dos no cumple lo que prometió, por ejemplo, si él dijo que lavaría los trastes y no lo cumple? Quizá su pareja le reclame y diga: "Oye, tu dijiste que lavarías los trastes..." y seguramente se iniciaría una larga discusión.

Ama a tu pareja y acéptala como es, nunca negocies con el amor; si la amas de verdad no te importará incluso renunciar a tus gustos y comodidades.

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Tu vecina Day dijo...

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.. por aquí pasando un ratico a actualizarme con todo los que has posteado,siempre tan bueno.Me encanta.Hice un post hoy y lo asocié contigo,debe ser porque era de humanidad y sobre niños..y recordé que tienes 5 ja,ja

-Un abrazo CiberAmiga que tengas un buen fín de semana y que seas muy felíz.

Tu vecina Day dijo...

-Buenos días Marianna,
pasaba a desearte unas felices fiestas mexicanas!

Un beso.

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Apreciada en Cristo Marianna,

Amar es doblegarse, quien negocia no ama.

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